The Power of the Pity Party

Last night, for the first time, I hosted a segment to put an electric JOLT into the listeners. Normally, I interview guests and provide the most powerful, uplifting, motivating messages I can. This segment though, I wanted to talk about the POWER in the Pity Party. Too often, I meet people that are empowered through self pity. The problem is when you throw a pity party, you are the only guest. Then you have a choice: Wallow in the mess or get out.

What is it about self-pity that we seem to gain strength from? Frustration? Lack? Worry? Fear? What is it? I took 30 minutes to talk about why we really don't need much of what we enjoy today in society. Why do we have color television sets? Cordless telephones? Life Coaches? Microwaves? YMCA's? Why in the world do single parents need Single Parent Assistance, Resources & Knowledge, Inc. What is the point?

You do have a right to be upset, frustrated, hurt and angry. Don't stay in the "I feel sorry for myself state" too long though. Please, if you are feeling alone, frustrated, sad or confused, download the podcast below and concentrate on taking back control of YOUR life. You matter, you're special, you're amazing.

Pay attention in life to others and re-evaluate your life and the choices you have made.

1. Identify your problems
2. Seek out a solution
3. Change your environment



Ask yourself this: If what you're doing is not solving the problem that you are in, what else can you do to solve your problem? What can you change? What can you do differently? There are 55 days left in this year. Make the changes necessary in 2009 to take control of 2010. You really can live your BEST life now. Believe it!

Knock FEAR out!

Stop letting FEAR hold you back from fulfilling your life desires! Allow your dreams to come alive, switch gears and use every opportunity that you have available to live your best life now.

What does FEAR do?

Steal time

Kill dreams

Delay our goals

Deflate success

Devalue our worth

Prevent promotion

Encourage excuses

Rob us of our future

Make us believe what isn't true

Stop us from achieving our dreams

Tell us not to charge for our services

Give us permission to remain average

Create anger, depression and frustration

Tell us to remain in low paying jobs because we like the people

and the list goes on!

Has FEAR stopped you? Join today and start taking action toward your life goals! This is a quick video about FEAR. Email all questions to info@sparkwisdom.com

Knock FEAR out!

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world." Marianne Williamson
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